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Table 3 Contents of the booklet: Live with Love - Hope for the best, prepare for the worst

From: The development of a complex intervention in China: the ‘Caring for Couples Coping with Cancer “4Cs” Programme’ to support couples coping with cancer

Title

Contents

Primary stressorsa

Helping with medications

 ❖ Taking care of your spouse with cancer

Providing hygiene car

Assisting with eating and drinking

Help with other ‘technical’ care

Use of special equipment

Dealing with common symptoms

 - Pain (including concern about opioids and hastening death); Nausea; Constipation; Breathlessness; Fatigue; Delirium

Emotional care

Spiritual care at the end of life

How much should patients be told about their illness?

Available cancer care resources

Secondary stressorsb

The Role of the Caregiver

 ❖ Being a caregiver—what is it about?

Helping to Manage Your Loved One’s Treatment

Helping Your Loved One With Practical Matters

Providing Emotional Support

Caregiving Under Difficult Circumstances

Taking Care of Yourself

 - Staying Healthy

 - Getting Emotional Support

 - Getting Help With Caregiving Responsibilities

 - Maintaining hope when the situation seems hopeless

 - Feeling overwhelmed? It’s time to relax!

 - Taking a break

Dyadic mediatorc

Sense of self-efficacy

 ❖ Caring for your relationships

Reciprocal self-disclosure

Partner responsiveness

Relationship engagement

Family meetings

Your relationship with the person you are caring for

Involving children

Your relationship with family and friends

Dyadic appraisald

The meaning of their role in daily life

 ❖ Sharing the stressful event

Caregivers’ feeling of accomplishment;

The illness representations

Illness ownership

Specific stressors

Communication

Reciprocal influence

Caregiver-patient congruence

Dyadic copinge

Problem-, emotion and meaning-focused coping

 ❖ Improving supportive and collaborative coping

 - Benefit finding

 - Benefit reminding

 - Adaptive goal processes,

 - Reordering priorities

 - Infusing ordinary events with positive meaning

Cognitive-behavioural responses

 - Planning ahead

 - Self-care

 - Caregiving behaviours

  1. aPrimary stressors: refer to factors related to the patient’s illness, such as the stage of the cancer, the patient’s physical health, care demands (dependency), and the cancer trajectory
  2. bSecondary stressors: consist of role conflict, the caregiver-patient relationship, schedule disruptions, loss of sleep, fatigue, and contextual factors
  3. cDyadic mediator: act as “leverage” to balance or off-set the stressors leading to the dyadic appraisal, coping, and adjustment of the cancer couple dyads. It includes the following components: “daily enrichment events”, “caregiver’s sense of self-efficacy”, relationship-enhancing strategies, e.g. reciprocal self-disclosure, partner responsiveness, and relationship engagement
  4. dDyadic appraisal: refers to the components and representation of the illness, illness ownership, and whether the couple shared the stressors
  5. eDyadic coping: is conceptualized as a continuum of couple involvement ranging from the non-involvement of the spouse, that the patient perceives that he or she is alone in coping with the stressful event, to the over-involvement of the spouse, that the patient perceives the spouse as controlling, in that the spouse dominates the actions of the ill partner by taking charge and telling the partner what to do